when rules, consequences and rewards don’t work
Most parenting methods don’t work because they try to change kids’ behavior from the outside instead of motivating them from within.
External motivation doesn’t help kids succeed in the long run.
Only internal motivation can.
When children are intrinsically motivated, they strive to achieve without being forced to.
Rewards and punishment might seem to work the first few times, but eventually they will stop working, or worse, backfire.
But there’s actually an easier, and far less stressful, way to motivate your child.
I used to be a parent’s nightmare.
I was a lazy third grader. I watched TV all day, skipped homework, and even lied about it.
Thanks to my mother’s parenting, I eventually developed internal motivation to learn and became self-driven to achieve.
Now I help parents turn their unmotivated kids into engaged and thriving learners.
I have developed a 4-step motivation strategy based on my mother’s parenting and proven science to motivate kids intrinsically.
And it works.
Our daughter has thrived even on distance learning.
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